It’s a topic that has been answered by many people
differently. Everybody in life falls for someone sooner or later. But not
everyone gets the person of his choice. Some of us accept the reality and move
on while some remain stuck to the past and destroy their life.
The problem with us is when we fall in love with someone we
want us to be happy. We want to live with that person even if other person
doesn’t like us. We pray to God desperately that please bring that person to my
life. Although we say that happiness of the other person is more important to
us. But not all of us mean that.
Whenever two people fall in love some tragedy always
happens. So what happens is one person moves away due to some reasons?
Sometimes he/she finds a better person and thinks that this person will keep me
happier then the person I am living with. Sometimes family don’t accept the
other person and sometimes money comes in between both of them. We say that
money is not a factor when you are in love but that’s not the case money and
love and directly proportional to each other. There are very rare cases where
two people fall in love with each other that don’t have the money and they
stayed in love for the rest of their life.
Anyways when one person leaves the other person and moves
out with someone else we start scolding that person. We start saying he/she was
not loyal. They cheated us etc. Although at starting we said that the happiness
of the person we love matters more to us but when they find someone who can keep
them happier than us we forget all the sayings and start abusing that person.
Yup it’s true when you get hurt your mind and heart stops
thinking. Our mind and heart don’t accept that the other person can actually
leave us. Yup it is true that sometimes the other person cheats but if he/she
can cheat you once stop running after them because they won’t hesitate doing it
again. It’s a famous saying, stop looking for the happiness to the place where
you lost it.
One sided love mentally destroys a person. Mostly in this
world there is only one sided love. There are very rare cases where both the
person felt the same way. If you are in a relationship and you see that the
other person is not appreciating for what you are doing for him/her then you
are with the wrong person. I know even if you realize that the other person is
not right for you, you still will try to bring him/her to your life. You lie to
yourself that they will change. One day they will realize how much you love
them and how far you can go just to make them happy. But that only happens in
movies and in dramas where is last episode everything goes right.
Everybody has to right to decide what he/she wants with
his/her life. Appreciate other person’s decisions. Even if someone cheats you
or leaves you then still don’t accuse them just remember all the good time you
spent together and forget the rest. I know it’s easy to write and hard to
implement in real life but sooner or later you have to admit that you have to
move on with or without that person.
Sometimes you stop in the past and keep waiting for the
other person while the other person enjoys his life with someone else. It’s
time for you too to clear your mind and think that you have all the right to be
happy. If one person didn’t stay with you that’s fine it’s not like it is the
end of the world. Although that person was your whole life but what to do
sometimes you have to change your life.
I know it hurts and I know moving on is not easy. Most
people use drugs to hide their pain while others cry silently. Everybody felt
the pain in life but everyone has his own way of dealing with it.
Now it’s your choice to say behind and wait for someone you
know will never come to you or move on and find a better person. But remember
if you are looking for someone who can keep you happy or who will change your
life just look at the mirror because only you can change your life and only you
can make yourself happy.
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